To teach you how to turn that thing that makes you feel the most hopeless and powerless into the thing that makes you feel better about yourself and your life than you ever have before.

(Yes, THAT thing. THAT relationship. THAT addiction. THAT circumstance.

THAT thing CAN become the most empowering thing you've ever experienced. If you want it to.)

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Friends, this is the real deal. I have learned for myself just how powerful it is to move forward in my life as if there really IS no such thing as "victim," and I - through this body of work - am dedicated to serving as an example of what it's like to RISE UP from the ashes of a life that may feel like it's been completely destroyed... to RISE UP from those ashes and stand tall and strong and empowered in a life that would never have been possible without that destruction and all of the pain that led up to it. To RISE UP, with a backbone of STEEL, and move forward into the life you actually WANT!!

If you've ever felt like a victim, or if you feel like you are a victim now, and you are DONE with living at the mercy of that powerless feeling... if you are READY to free yourself from the prison of your own victim mindset... if you are WILLING to activate your Inner Champion... then I guarantee that you will find an incredible path to your own personal empowerment here, in the pages of this web site and in the pages of my latest book, "GET A BACKBONE: There's No Such Thing As Victim!" [Coming soon.]

If you feel like you're finally ready to live a different kind of life - the life of a Champion rather than the life of a victim - then GOOD FOR YOU! It is my mission and my purpose to help YOU to GROW that backbone, to learn to stand tall and strong and empowered in your own life, and to FEEL how amazing you actually ARE!

On this web site you will find all sorts of resources, tips and techniques for successfully choosing be your own empowered self.  I look forward to serving your empowered life.

Sandi Daly



It is not ANYTHING that has happened TO you that has made you a victim.

Rather, it's what you DO with it. It's how you RESPOND to it inside yourself. It's what you do in your attitudes. It's what you do in your responses. It's what you do in your emotions.

THAT is the ONLY thing that has the power to make you a victim.

My beautiful friend has put my story to music, and this gorgeous song is the result. I am so blessed and grateful.

"Phoenix" written and performed by Cerise Patron.  This was recorded at Unity of Phoenix on February 14, 2016.